You already know the drill during the holiday party circuit: ugly Christmas sweater shindigs and Secret Santa gift exchanges. But have you ever thought to channel your holiday cheer into more creative outlets (e.g., finessing your pet into a tiny sweater or crafting dozens of decorative baubles with friends)? Allow us to ignite your imagination with 16 how have I never thought of this? party options to try this winter.
Look, men are great and all (sometimes), but it's important to take time away from your family or crush or S.O. during the holidays and get some much-needed QT with your girlfriends. Instead of casual wine night in sweats and a t-shirt, per usual, make the dress code holiday cocktail attire and ask everyone to bring their favorite bottle. Then, play a guessing game of who brought what. Choose correctly and you get to take home the bottle. (Hot tip for the hostess: Make sure you have some extra vino handy in case your guests are really good guessers.)
A masquerade is the easiest, least expensive way to get people to dress up in a costume without actually putting in any effort (literally, just throw a mask on over your cutest outfit). It adds an element of mystery, and it's a great icebreaker ("is that mask handmade?") when friend groups are forced to merge. The more festive the disguise, the better.
The holidays can be stressful, and the last thing anybody wants to do is worry about prepping for another Christmas party. Instead, give your guests the gift of zen with face masks (hi, dry winter skin) and crystals to channel good energy and manifest goals for the new year. For an extra special evening, hire an astrologer to do readings for each attendee and see what's in store.
Mariah Carey’s powers are the strongest during the holidays. Channel her ultimate form with spangled costumes, the extra-est photo setup (multiple trees dripping in lights), a screening of the cinematic gem , and her hit song of the same name playing on loop. To serve: (maybe cut into stars, but that’s it) and a rare vintage of her .
The holidays don’t have to be all treacle and ribbons. To Tim Burton-ize the whole affair, demand (nicely) that your guests arrive in Halloween costumes and carve up some spooky/merry jack-o’-lanterns. For some, horror is actually quite comforting.
Even if you're not living your dream winter life on the slopes of some powdery mountain, nothing's stopping you from pretending you are. Decorate your home with traditional chalet accoutrements (furry rugs, basically anything wood-finished, a fireplace if you may) and have your guests roll up in their best Fair Isle sweaters and down vests for a night of hot chocolate, pints of beer, and s'mores by the fireside. Cozy!
Honestly, you will be searching for holiday movies on Netflix anyways, so why not have a festive film fest? Just keep it to fewer than five films to avoid merry movie fatigue. And if watching hours of movies isn't exciting enough for you and your couch buddies, add some action with a drinking game. Take a shot whenever someone says "Christmas spirit" or whenever anyone in Santa garb is on screen.
Gather your friends together and channel your inner domestic goddesses with a party that revolves around—you guessed it—crafting. *Oprah voice* "Bring on the felt poinsettias!" Construct wreaths, bedazzle some ornaments, cut and print homemade holiday cards, or even set up an elaborate gifting table (paper, ribbons, and labels galore) to wrap together—all while snacking and sipping on holiday treats and cocktails.
Christmas in July is a time-honored mid-summer party favorite. In the summer's hottest month, people pretend it's Christmas—complete with a tree, gift exchange, and hearty meal. Well, turn the tables on this tradition with a beach-themed romp in the depths of winter. Beach balls, mojitos, and everyone's favorite Christmas with the Beach Boys album are a must.
Seth Cohen was on to something when he merged together two of the most present-filled holidays into Chrismukkah. Throw an all-denominations holiday celebration and decorate with trinkets from every creed—a Christmas tree for, well, Christmas, dreidels for Hanukkah, and a kinara candle holder for Kwanzaa, to name a few. Spend the evening learning about each other's traditions (and watching The O.C.).
Instantly upgrade a holiday potluck by asking friends to bring their favorite cocktail mix instead of food. Candy cane martinis, eggnog, spiked cocoa…just be ready for some very rowdy rounds of carols towards the end of the night. (Oh, and you should probably actually have some food there as well.)
Because pets like nothing more than to be dressed up (as you can clearly see from how happy this dog looks), why not throw a party celebrating them and their adorable outfits? Imagine: a gathering with multiple puppies dressed in Santa hats. If that's not Christmas joy, we don't know what is. Bonus points if you can construct a makeshift photo area complete with an instant camera so that you and your friends can take holiday-themed, squee-worthy photos with your fluffy pets. Just think of all the photo opportunities for next year's holiday card.
Why not take a charming childhood tradition and turn it into a competition? Have all of the supplies for traditional gingerbread house building ready, but also choose a judge and a few different categories (such as "Most Creative," "Best Construction," "Best Candy Curating," etc.). To make things extra interesting, choose a theme (the more random, the better), set a timer, and GO!
You may not be a fan of unsolicited carolers banging on your door, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't enjoy an opportunity to bust out Wham!'s "Last Christmas." Either hit up a karaoke bar with private singing rooms or invest in a home karaoke set, and rock out to the holiday's best jams. Like the movie marathon, a complete Christmas playlist may take all night, so consider sticking to a theme, like pop reinterpretations of the classics (Biebs and Grande, there's always room for you).
Re-gifting—the act of handing off one of your previously received (and unwanted) gifts to someone else—may be considered tacky, but when everybody's doing it, it's just part of the fun. Have your friends bring one of last Christmas' cast-offs—a leopard-print Snuggie, an automatic-twirling spaghetti fork, a hot-pink clip-on tie. Make sure everyone's gifts are wrapped and then hold a "White Elephant" exchange in which people can pick from the pile or steal someone else's new acquisition. Always remember: One person's trash is another's treasure!
Christmas cookies are great, but that doesn't mean that we aren't excited about savory holiday snacks (cheese plates and charcuterie, anyone?). Instead of hosting a cookie swap, have friends bring their favorite seasonal appetizers for an app-only potluck—no main dishes invited! And yes, have one person bring cookies for "dessert."
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