As we've pointed out time and time again, people have sex! And it's normal, and most of the time fun/great! And making a consensual sex tape in the privacy of one's own home is nothing to be ashamed of. It's just that when you're a celebrity, said tape might get leaked, stolen, or sold without your approval—which is why there are *many* celebrity sex tapes lurking on the internet, none of which we will be linking to. But the stories of how they were released, why they were released, and how the celebs in question dealt with their release is a fascinating chapter in pop culture. Shall we begin?
Kim Kardashian and Ray J
Kim Kardashian is an accomplished business woman who's turned herself and her entire family into a brand. That fact exists separately from her sex tape. However, her career did jump-start because of the tape she made with then-boyfriend Ray J in 2002. The video, known as Kim Kardashian, Superstar, was released by porn company Vivid Entertainment in 2007, and while Kim initially sued to stop the release, she settled for a $5 million. The film is reported to have made since debuting.
"It was a very difficult time, and ultimately we were able to come to an agreement," Vivid's Steve Hirsch. "It was a very difficult deal to get done. Probably [the hardest deal we’ve done]. [Kim] did not want it to happen. I know people have speculated on [whether she planned the release of the tape from the beginning], but the facts are the facts. A lot of nonsense has been reported over the years."
Kim has talked openly about the tape, telling Oprah, "I think that's how I was definitely introduced to the world, so I like to think that I am, you know, aware, I'm not naive to that fact. That's pretty much how I was introduced to the world. It was a negative way. So I felt like I really had to work ten times harder to get people to see the real me. I felt humiliated."
To this day, Kim experiences sexist backlash from the tape.
Colin Farrell and Nicole Narain
Colin Farrell dated Playboy model Nicole Narain in 2003, and recorded a 14-minute sex tape with her that is considered relatively infamous. The tape was released a couple years after it was made, and Colin sued—an ordeal that he says was horrifying: "I was deposed for four hours explaining why I didn’t want it to be released," he . "God forbid, it’s an on-demand movie in a hotel room and my mother says, 'Oh, I haven’t seen this work of my son's,' and hits purchase."
Things got pretty complicated when Farrell accused Narain of—to quote —"trying to distribute the tape through an intermediary," which she denied. Actually, she claimed to have lost work thanks to the tape. "I try not to let too many things get to me, but this is definitely stressful," she in 2005, explaining that she did not consent to the tape's potential distribution. "I really would like my name to be cleared. I have nothing to do with this."
Farrell's lawyer Martin Singer claimed that Narain had the opportunity to "join with us in stopping the tape from being exploited…and she refused," so she was named codefendant along with David Hans Schmidt, the person attempting to sell the tape. Schmidt refused to tell how he came to possess the tape, simply saying, "I have a written agreement that authorizes me to procure the sale and distribution of the-Nicole Narain sex video."
Farrell and Narain eventually their lawsuit, though the terms were confidential. In 2013, Farrell joked about the tape with Sharon Osbourne, saying, "the worst thing about making a sex tape is you can't blame anyone for the bad dialogue."
Paris Hilton and Rick Salomon
Paris Hilton's sex tape debuted in 2003—but was not intended for release. The tape was filmed with poker player Rick Salomon, who filed a string of lawsuits, starting with the company that distributed the tape, as well as Hilton's family, whom he sued for $10 million, claiming (per ) that they, "falsely accused him of making the video without her consent."
The impact that this had on Hilton's public image cannot be overstated, and—like Kim Kardashian—she was the victim of slut-shaming as a result. "It's really hurtful, because my whole life I really looked up to Princess Diana, all these elegant, amazing women, and I feel like [Salomon] just took that all away from me," she told Carte-Mere. "I could have been like that, but because of that tape, I will always be judged and thought of as whatever they say about me because of a private moment between my boyfriend and me.... I wish I had never met him. That is actually the one regret in my life. I wish that I had never met that guy. I could not leave my house for months. I was so depressed, humiliated. I didn't want to be seen in public."
Hilton the company that distributed the tape for $30 million (this lawsuit was )—and in 2004, Salomon went ahead and to Red Light District Video, who named it One Night in Paris. The hotel heiress and reality star was given $400,000 and a percentage of profits during lawsuit settlements, which she's said to have donated to charity. Emphasis on "reportedly," because she told : "I never received a dime from the video. It's just dirty money and [Salomon] should give it all to some charity for the sexually abused or something. To be honest, I don't even think about it any more."
Kanye West (and Maybe Kim Kardashian)
A Kanye West sex tape allegedly exists out there somewhere, but has not been leaked thus far. confirmed that an intimate video of the rapper was being shopped around in 2012. And we can't forget that in the song "Real Friends," West rapped the lyrics, "I had a cousin that stole my laptop that I was f*cking bitches on / Paid that n**** $250,000 just to get it from him."
The tape was while being shopped, and reportedly features an unknown woman stating that she is over the age of 18 at the beginning. Meanwhile, Kim Kardashian has that she and Kanye have made their own tape together, which sure, why not:
"My husband Kanye and I have an amazing sex life. So far as the sex tape is concerned, whether or not we’ve made another...if we have, it’s never something I want to go public. I never want to make the same mistake twice. You do these sorts of things with people you trust. When someone says to me, 'sex tape,' it’s a very private thing, not something I would ever want anyone else to see but me and Kanye.... I am married to an incredible man and let’s just say we do like to have fun. Have we made another? There’s nothing wrong with being adventurous, having fun and experimenting, but there’s definitely the right sort of person you should surround yourself with. Kanye and I have a very good sex life. What we do privately is private. I think let’s just leave it at that."
Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa
Jennifer Lopez allegedly made a private tape with her first husband Ojani Noa during their honeymoon. His attempt to release it has embroiled Lopez in a legal dispute that appears to be ongoing. Per , Lopez and Noa's lawsuit over the tape spans years, and she initially claimed that its release would violate the confidentiality agreement he signed after their split. Apparently, J.Lo's team had a judge order that the tape be in a safe-deposit box back in 2011, but in 2013 the former couple were still disputing settlement terms, with Ojani's team $3.75 million.
On a lighter note, Andy Cohen asked Lopez about whether or not she'd ever filmed a tape, and her face is priceless.
Carolyn Murphy and Jake Schroeder
Like so many of the women on this list, Sports Illustrated swimsuit model Carolyn Murphy had a sex tape she made with her ex-husband Jake Schroeder leak online sans consent. The tape was in 1999, and Schroeder was accused of trying to sell it. He was reportedly on extortion charges as a result—and get this: His bail was paid by Internet Commerce Group, the company working with him to market the sex tape. "Our position is that no crime has been committed," ICG lawyer David Gingras told . "You cannot commit extortion by offering to sell something you own."
Tonya Harding and Jeff Gillooly
Olympic figure skater Tonya Harding made a sex tape on her wedding night with her ex-husband Jeff Gillooly, and——the pair made the decision to sell the tape together to Penthouse. They received $200,000 each as a result, plus royalties.
News of Chelsea Handler's sex tape being shopped around made headlines in 2010, but she confirmed that the tape itself was filmed as a joke, and is actually cut with footage of her stand-up. "The tape you have is an old tape that was done for a stand-up comedy bit," she during her talk show. "I would like to say to, thanks for ruining my surprise Christmas gift to my staff. Number two, it was made as a joke. I put it on an audition tape for a comedy club, because I'm a comedian, and I've been showing it at birthday parties for f*cking years!"
The tape was never released, and Chelsea brushed it off, "It was not a big deal to anyone, I don't think. I mean, people were talking about it, but if they had shown it, people would see it was a joke, so I think that's why nobody actually saw it."
Eve and Stevie J
Rapper (and The Talk co-host!) Eve filmed a sex tape with her then-boyfriend Stevie J, which hit the internet in 2005. Stevie J denied leaking the tape, , "I’m a pioneer. I made a tape and gave it to her and she took it on the road, on tour with her, and the rest was history. It wasn’t me, I didn’t leak that joint. I could’ve leaked it. I gave it to her and one of her girlfriends leaked it, thank you very much. I don’t want my beefcake all in the street."
Meanwhile, Eve shut down rumors that the sex tape was leaked on purpose (ugh, what is up with this trend of accusing women of leaking their own sex tapes?): "When that happened, sex tapes weren't 'hot' like that, and I got the FBI involved," Eve . "So that’s not something I wanted to happen…I respect my mother and my family and that’s not something I am okay with. And it hurt my heart that anyone who was in my circle—whether it be [Stevie] or anybody else—it hurt my heart that that went out there. That wasn’t my thing."
Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee
Pamela Anderson and then-husband Tommy Lee's sex tape from their 1998 honeymoon ended up finding its way online after being stolen from their home . Pamela sued the distribution company, but ended up settling, and the tape continued to be available online as a result. She's joked about the incident since, once during a stand-up set, "Did you see that Hulk Hogan got $115 million for his sex tape? That pissed me off! All I got were some stupid Mötley Crüe tickets."
Apparently, —in legitimate sales alone.
Hulk Hogan and his BFF's wife
In 2012, Gawker published a sex tape depicting Hulk Hogan and the wife of his then-best friend, radio DJ Bubba the Love Sponge. Hogan Gawker Media for publishing the tape, which he said was filmed without his knowledge or consent five years prior. In , the jury on the case sided with Hogan, awarding him $115 million in damages and effectively bankrupting the media compant.
John Edwards and Rielle Hunter
The former presidential candidate found himself at the center of a scandal in 2008 when news of his affair with Rielle Hunter was leaked. In 2010 it was reported that a tape of them consummating their affair existed. The video was filmed around September or October of 2007, during Edwards' presidential campaign, according to . Hunter was estimated to have been four or five months pregnant with Edwards' child at the time of filming. Critics were particularly upset over the fact that Edwards' wife, Elizabeth Edwards, was battling cancer at the time. She passed away in 2010.
Eric Dane and Rebecca Gayheart
In , a home movie from Grey's Anatomy alum Eric Dane and his wife, actress Rebecca Gayheart, leaked. It also featured former Miss Teen USA, Kari Ann Peniche. The video shows the three celebrities naked and seemingly intoxicated in a hot tub, but stops short of featuring any actual sex.